So from what I gather, draping is really a state thing first and then based on the state's code of ethics, a client-therapist consideration.
With that said, I believe TX's current regulations states: draping will be used during the session, unless otherwise agreed to by both the client and the licensee
I read this to say that draping is NOT a state requirement but a client-therapist consideration. This may explain why I get a lot of requests for non draping sessions.
Just yesterday I got a request from someone looking for a professional massage but states that he does not like draping. He also offered to pay more if I would allow this.
My first instinct with all these clients is that no draping request = wanting something extra than a professional massage. However the state regulations says contrary.
So am I foolish for turning down a session because of this? I know I must follow my intuition, so I have already written him a note thanking him for the interest but letting him know that it would make me too uncomfortable. I explained that this was not how I was taught or how I practice, and therefore doing such a session would not be giving him the best I could give.
But I am curious as to other's thoughts and practices with regards to draping. Do you get a lot of requests to exclude it? What are your state's regulations? Have you ever worked on someone who wasn't draped?
You should never feel foolish for trusting your instincts. You can't work well if you're nervous or anxious.
I have a regular client who repeatedly stated that he would be comfortable with no draping while i work on his glutes. I was trained to use full draping, only the portion of the body being worked on is exposed. I also have an agreement with my husband that I don't have skin to skin contact on the tush. So I told him that I was trained to work draped and he was fine with it, stopped bringing it up. and keeps coming back.
If you are an effective therapist your returning clients won't have a problem with the draping. No one gets 'em all.
I work and have massages in Texas. I do not like a drape as I feel adjusting it interferes with the flow. I have many male clients who don't equate sex with draping,
Also Casandra, I can't believe you were taught not to do the tush
Eric Thomas
Lomi Lomi is always another modality to use.hardly no drape at all or you can just use towels to cover private area.
Dec 2, 2012
Cassandra Cravens
You should never feel foolish for trusting your instincts. You can't work well if you're nervous or anxious.
I have a regular client who repeatedly stated that he would be comfortable with no draping while i work on his glutes. I was trained to use full draping, only the portion of the body being worked on is exposed. I also have an agreement with my husband that I don't have skin to skin contact on the tush. So I told him that I was trained to work draped and he was fine with it, stopped bringing it up. and keeps coming back.
If you are an effective therapist your returning clients won't have a problem with the draping. No one gets 'em all.
Dec 14, 2012
Sandy
Also Casandra, I can't believe you were taught not to do the tush
Dec 14, 2012