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Since being on this site I have discovered that we all fight stereo-typing of our chosen profession. We all work/study to the highest level of our professional ability. I was professionally offended by the commercial of Danica and the massage therapist. It wasn't funny to me. As a woman their commercials are disturbing, but now godaddy has picked my/our profession.
I have sent a complaint to godaddy.com and I am wondering what everyone else thinks of this portrayal?
Did it bother you? How many of your clients will bring it up? Or was it just advertising?
THIS THREAD IS NOW CLOSED TO DISCUSSION. THE FINAL DATE OF THE PETITION IS FEBRUARY 15, 2010. THANK YOU TO EVERYONE THAT PARTICIPATED.
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I did not say I wasn't aware of it ,Choice, I meant, I don't know really know how much you get the same innuendos as females? I have only heard of very few incidences of males reporting to me that they have had suggestions or comments made to them. That's all I know.
As for all the comments on here,I am also not boiling over about this ad. It did not provoke me in the way it may have for some. I am just saying it is about time we speak up.
Some people seem to take it lightly, Some may be more upset and some in the middle of the road. Like we said, everyone has their own opinion.
I did bring up the TV shows and Yes many years ago I did write in about the Seinfeld episode along with other colleagues. Unfortunately, no one responded and there wasn't social networking to organize everyone.
Let's face it! There is a stereotype. Maybe our clients don't accuse us because we are professional but it doesn't mean we don't encounter problems.
So I will tell you a story.
20 years ago a woman gave her husband a gift certificate. He waited until the last minute to use it.
We had a discussion and he admitted he didn't know what to do if he got an erection?
Months later the wife wanted to get him another gift certificate, he came in again just before it expired.
He said to me he had been seeing another massage therapist and he wanted to know if I did those other things, y'know, moves? When I told him absolutely not, he begged me to not tell his wife and he apologized to me.
So you see they will assume and ask even if we are presenting professionally. I was working in a chiropractors office at the time too. And another older gentleman in his 70's did not hesitate to play head trips and then exposed himself. In a medical professional atmosphere can you imagine?
I had another gentleman come in one day and he was dressed in a suit, a school teacher by the way. He was dressed very professional.
He read the disclosure at the bottom of the intake form and hesitated to sign. He said I never had to fill out one of these forms. I said you obviously are in the wrong place. I politely dismissed him and he said thank you.
So for those of us commenting if we represent ourselves professionally and take responsibility, this won't happen. Wrong! It may not happen as often, but it happens occasionally.
Fortunately ,it has not presented it self to me in over 15 years. I do hear from other LMT's that encounter this occasionally.
So, if we don't start speaking up, we can expect that some of us may be put in this uncomfortable position and why???
I don't think any one should have to feel compromised or threatened.
I have been teaching for years and many new students are concerned about this being a possibility because of what is "out there" and comments family and friends make. It is an awful feeling.
And Like Terry said, she was only asking Did it bother anyone or was it just advertising?
By the way if you are on FaceBook Bodhi Haraldsoon has started a page:
Massage Therapist offended by the Go Daddy ad
Someone posted a comment from the owner of Go Daddy:
Dear Deborah,
The commercial was not damaging to massage therapists in any way. Lighten up. You'll live longer.
Bob
By the way , do any of you massage in 3 inch heels?
Choice Kinchen said:Gloria, c'mon. You been in the biz for 25 years and you're not aware of the innuendos men therapists have had to deal with too? Maybe not as often as women, but it happens. I've also had to deal with chiros and other "professionals" incl. medical that said they would not hire me cause I'm male and not female. Can we say discrimination?
So did anyone send petitions to the "Friends" people or the "Seinfeld" people for their seemingly lack of respect towards their portrayals of massage therapists? Just askin'.
By the way, I'm not a newbie. I've been in the biz for 10 years.
Hi Terry,
Im back again, I personally feel the same way as my first comment, however I see this commercial has really caused a stir. As part of the MASSAGE AND BODYWORK PROFESSION I feel I need to step up to the plate and make a pitch. As we near the big number of 5000 I feel if we as professionals, need to defend ourselves then lets make it known. Start a petition!! Send it to GoDaddy ! Let them Know that we do not appreciate the portrayal set upon us. I do not think they would appreciate it if the shoe was on the other foot I doubt it would, because this day in time companys are striving to stay in business and throwing ETHICS out the door and dont care who they hurt. Female or Male
1.Travis Alligood, LMBT- Salisbury, NC
Oh and by the way while everyone is stepping up to the plate, lets invite more Licensed Massage Therapist to the site so that they to can help with the petition.
Travis Alligood said:Hi Terry,
Im back again, I personally feel the same way as my first comment, however I see this commercial has really caused a stir. As part of the MASSAGE AND BODYWORK PROFESSION I feel I need to step up to the plate and make a pitch. As we near the big number of 5000 I feel if we as professionals, need to defend ourselves then lets make it known. Start a petition!! Send it to GoDaddy ! Let them Know that we do not appreciate the portrayal set upon us. I do not think they would appreciate it if the shoe was on the other foot I doubt it would, because this day in time companys are striving to stay in business and throwing ETHICS out the door and dont care who they hurt. Female or Male
1.Travis Alligood, LMBT- Salisbury, NC
Here is the link on Face Book for those that are interested
http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#!/group.php?gid=296416620741&ref=ts
GoDaddy achieved exactly what they wanted with their 2.6 million dollar ad. People are talking about it. The more mail they receive in a negative or positive is just confirming the fact that, business-wise, they made the right decision for their money.
GoDaddy achieved exactly what they wanted with their 2.6 million dollar ad. People are talking about it. The more mail they receive in a negative or positive is just confirming the fact that, business-wise, they made the right decision for their money.
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