Leaders vs. Rulers

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Scrolling through the files on the computer I ran across this comment listed below.  With all the 'goings on' with the massage industry such as, creating a board for this, new regulations for that, nationally certified, state certified, advanced certified...not to mention all the alliances for this and that, I thought these words seemed appropriate....

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I found this interesting in Kent Nerburn's work, Neither Wolf Nor Dog - On Forgotten Roads with an Indian Elder:

Leaders and Rulers

"There are leaders and there are rulers.  We Indians are used to leaders.  When our leaders don't lead, we walk away from them.  When they lead well, we stay with them.

A leader is a leader as long as the people believe in him and as long as he is the best person to lead us.  You can only lead as long as the people will follow.

In the past when we needed a warrior we made a warrior our leader.  But when the war was over and we needed a healer to lead us, he became our leader.  Or maybe we needed a great speaker or a deep thinker. 

The warrior knew his time had passed and he didn't pretend to be our leader beyond the time he was needed.  He was proud to serve his people and he knew when it was time to step aside.  If he won't step aside, people will just walk away from him.  He cannot make himself a leader except by leading people in the way they want to be lead.

A person wasn't a leader because they got votes.  They were a leader because the people would follow them.  The same with teachers.  A person wasn't a teacher because they had been elected or got a certificate.  They were a teacher because they knew something and were respected.  If they didn't know enough, they weren't teachers.  Or if we didn't need to know what they knew, we didn't go to them.

Telling us they have a paper that lets them teach is like putting a fancy wrapping on a box.  We want to know what's in that box.  An empty box with a fancy wrapper is still an empty box.

That is not the way it should be.  Good leaders wait to be called and they give up their power when they are no longer needed.  Selfish men and fools put themselves first and keep their power until someone throws them out.  It is no good to have a way where selfish men and fools fight with each other to be leaders, while the good ones watch. 

That is why Sitting Bull was great.  He did not rule.  He led."

Kent Nerburn

Neither Wolf Nor Dog - On Forgotten Roads with an Indian Elder

Kris