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This group was started so that Massage Therapist could share their thoughts and experiences of mentoring. Mentoring new Students of Massage Therapy as well as new Massage Therapist.
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I am currently working at a massage clinic and I was offered to come in for an interview at a chiropractic/wellness center. I would like to be prepared with the propper questions when I go for the…Continue
Started by christina Apr 11, 2012.
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Hi Christina, congrats on graduation from MT school. Just curious are you looking into practicing as an independant contractor, or working for someone ? When I committed to school , I really set my intentions on working for myself which is what I have done for almost 3 yrs now. Not saying I will not work for someone, but I want to stay on my own without having to hire someone and depending on them to BE THERE.
After graduating from school my advisor from school called me and ask me if I would be interested, in helping a high school student as a mentor to find out if this is really the direction they wanted to go. Why I felt honored to know that she thought enough of me to call on me to take this task. My suggestion is going back to school and ask your instructors if they know of any mentors in your area of NJ where you live. Maybe they would consider being a mentor.
My thoughts on working with my mentor would be better working away from where I work. Good Luck!! Congratulations again.
Hello All! I am about to be a graduate from my school(3 weeks!!) and I have just recently started looking into where I want to work when I am done with school. Anyone have any suggestions as to how I can go about finding a mentor to work with? I would love to work for someone who would enjoy sharing their knowledge of technique as well as energy based work. What i do not know is how to approach this type of request during an interview.I want to be clear in my intentions while not sounding needy. I do have a good base for what I am about to embark on and i know the more that I apply the technique that I have learned and keep educating myself and furthering my skills with CEU's I will become a stronger therapist...Is trying to find a mentor in a work setting something that is heard of or should I be approaching this idea from another angle?..any advise that can be offered up would be most appreciated!
One of the things I love the most about mentoring and beikg mentored is what I like to call those "aha" moments. When you can tell a light bulb went off for someone or you can feel the enrgy shift in yourself.
When I mentor or teach different groups, I love to check in with the person about what they felt during the week and if and how they were able to actually utilize what they have learned.
I loved the last business coach I had because after being self employed for so many years, I loved having the accountability to someone besides myself.
In the Motivated Mondays weekly class I facilitate at our local library, I share with the group that the life changes they are working on for themselves is a wonderful form of self love and to give themselves permission to work toward the things they have set for themselves.
Many of my clients who find out someone's relative or friend is just starting out as a massage therapist always ask if the person can call and pick my brain. The door is always open!
Another tip from a 'mentoring' experience last week. How to ask questions of your teacher/mentor. What has worked best for me is to actively listen, do my best to understand, then propose an open ended or open minded question. Basically, be open, honest and upbeat.
What occured last week was this: Via E-mail, I did my best to work with an almost-licensed therapist get past his focus on features (modalities) and pricing. His reply, or questions, came back in a very rude fashion. Not only rude, but personally insulting. His comment back to me when I mentioned that I charge $90.00 per hour for an outcall massage: "Wow, I'd really feel screwed if I had to pay that much!" After that I just didn't have the heart to tell him that the target markets I work in are just fine with this rate or anything else.
Perhaps if he would have questioned me further, such as, "Wow, I'd like to make $90.00 per hour, could you explain to me how you do this, or what target markets are willing to pay this?" I would have provided any information he asked for. Yet, between this comment and many others of how at the ripe old age of 22 he already knows everything, I sent him on his way. Who wants to work with someone whose cup is already full?
The point is, learn how to ask questions in person and how to ask questions while writing. If something is bothering us, or we don't get the answers we seek, step away and think it over. Even take a day or two and get some composure, then question away! For me, there's a difference between being direct, even direct questioning, and using sarcasm or condescending tones or being flippant.
It could be that I'm just getting old and grouchy as well ;)
Kris
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