massage and bodywork professionals
a community of practitioners
Tags:
Views: 18559
Relatively healthy as in "other than carrying too much weight, heart/cholesterol/blood pressure etc. are in good shape/within normal limits." I still maintain that it's really none of our business why someone is the weight they are, whether it is too much or not enough.
My note of caution about "incorporating healthy info" still stands. I'm not saying not to do anything of the sort, just to be extremely careful about how it's done, both due to scope of practice and the possibility/likelihood as coming across as judgmental. One doesn't have to directly point a finger at another's behavior in order to cause feelings of shame and guilt; helpful, well-meaning suggestions can do that alone: I know I should . . . why don't I . . .I'm so weak . . . look at all these other people who have been able to do it . . . what's wrong with me? . . . I'm such a failure . . .
Obese/overweight clients will already know that they would feel better if they lost weight. Yes, there are specific musculoskeletal examples we may be able to demonstrate (postural distortions due to weight, etc.), but I still wouldn't bring up weight loss as a solution. The client will be able to make that conclusion. Again, just a note of caution.
Lisa said:Erica, how can she be relatively healthy if she's obese?
i certainly wasn't suggesting to be rude and forward about asking her directly. and i certainly wasn't suggesting to point the finger as to what aren't you doing. there ARE ways to incorporate healthy information in the realm of what we do. we offer up water after a massage because we know the benefits it offers in relation to a massage. in the same token we know that many chronic issues are directly related to weight.
I agree with Erica. In spite of the fact that I am overweight, my stats are all within normal range and better than those of a lot of skinny people. High cholesterol, high blood sugar, and HBP do not just apply to overweight people.
I was anorexic as a teenager...I have pictures of myself weighing 75 pounds and it is a miracle I didn't fall over dead. I have obviously gone too far in the other direction, and I obviously have emotional issues with food, but if I had to choose one or the other, I would choose myself now as opposed to the anorexic.
We have a married couple who are clients at my office, and the woman is perhaps 20 lbs overweight, nothing serious. A few months ago when her husband came in for his appt, he actually told the therapist that he "wanted her to say something to his wife about how overweight she is." The therapist told him that was not her job to do and that she would say nothing of the sort. I don't think he's concerned about her health at all, I think he just doesn't like her little bit of padding. He always acts like he thinks he's god's gift to women.
Nutritional counseling is not in our scope of practice unless you happen to be a registered nutritionist or a registered dietitian. Counseling on the whole is not in our scope. I completed a 2000 hour internship in counseling as part of my master's in psych studies, could counsel if I wanted to, and I still do not counsel people. That is not why they are coming there. They are coming for massage, and that's what they're going to get. Our board regularly gets complaints about unqualified therapists setting themselves up as counselors.
Erica Olson said:Relatively healthy as in "other than carrying too much weight, heart/cholesterol/blood pressure etc. are in good shape/within normal limits." I still maintain that it's really none of our business why someone is the weight they are, whether it is too much or not enough.
My note of caution about "incorporating healthy info" still stands. I'm not saying not to do anything of the sort, just to be extremely careful about how it's done, both due to scope of practice and the possibility/likelihood as coming across as judgmental. One doesn't have to directly point a finger at another's behavior in order to cause feelings of shame and guilt; helpful, well-meaning suggestions can do that alone: I know I should . . . why don't I . . .I'm so weak . . . look at all these other people who have been able to do it . . . what's wrong with me? . . . I'm such a failure . . .
Obese/overweight clients will already know that they would feel better if they lost weight. Yes, there are specific musculoskeletal examples we may be able to demonstrate (postural distortions due to weight, etc.), but I still wouldn't bring up weight loss as a solution. The client will be able to make that conclusion. Again, just a note of caution.
Lisa said:Erica, how can she be relatively healthy if she's obese?
i certainly wasn't suggesting to be rude and forward about asking her directly. and i certainly wasn't suggesting to point the finger as to what aren't you doing. there ARE ways to incorporate healthy information in the realm of what we do. we offer up water after a massage because we know the benefits it offers in relation to a massage. in the same token we know that many chronic issues are directly related to weight.
Trust me, the client knows that she's not in ideal health or living up to our culture's standards of beauty; the last place she needs to hear it is from the person she is putting her trust and vulnerability into.
Thank you all. And thank you Jenny, I'll read that article. My new client has seen me twice now and scheduled for a third. I wish there was a class in my area for working with obese clients, but I'll have to settle for learning as I go. :)
Hi Crystal, MT school doesn't prepare us for everything does it? but maybe life has prepared you better ?
The way I see it is like this, Your treatments will already be supplying a chemical balance via the feel good factor, then as you two get to know one another ,the more friendly and open the chit chat will become. Do not initiate the conversation wait for her to take the lead in conversation re diet, weight loss or what ever is on her mind at the time. All you have to do is listen and encourage her towards more a positive outlook/action. She will be expecting you to do this, her higher self may just need to " hear it spoken " and so could mark the start of important changes in her life.
You can't take a class to match every client/intake/awkward/medicle/ situation, trust your heart and mind and spirit to guide you as you gain experience. You are good MT, you can only get better.
Crystal Dawn Suovanen said:Thank you all. And thank you Jenny, I'll read that article. My new client has seen me twice now and scheduled for a third. I wish there was a class in my area for working with obese clients, but I'll have to settle for learning as I go. :)
Good advice. Right now I think she is contented to just to receive the massage and the rest will come later. She has said that she is pain free for three or more days after a massage. I said great! It's one of the best things she can do to get those stress levels down.
Stephen Jeffrey said:Hi Crystal, MT school doesn't prepare us for everything does it? but maybe life has prepared you better ?
The way I see it is like this, Your treatments will already be supplying a chemical balance via the feel good factor, then as you two get to know one another ,the more friendly and open the chit chat will become. Do not initiate the conversation wait for her to take the lead in conversation re diet, weight loss or what ever is on her mind at the time. All you have to do is listen and encourage her towards more a positive outlook/action. She will be expecting you to do this, her higher self may just need to " hear it spoken " and so could mark the start of important changes in her life.
You can't take a class to match every client/intake/awkward/medicle/ situation, trust your heart and mind and spirit to guide you as you gain experience. You are good MT, you can only get better.
Crystal Dawn Suovanen said:Thank you all. And thank you Jenny, I'll read that article. My new client has seen me twice now and scheduled for a third. I wish there was a class in my area for working with obese clients, but I'll have to settle for learning as I go. :)
What massage table are you using that you knew it wouldnt accomodate her weight? I would think any professional table would handle easily 600 lbs.
Jason
© 2024 Created by ABMP. Powered by